Posts Tagged ‘ success ’

Mornings, oh yes


I admit it, I am not naturally a morning person. Having an infant son hasn’t really helped to make me one either. However, the principles of today’s post from the Insights Blog are ones I have personally seen and experienced, and have heard from countless other leaders as validation. So, I’ve made it my personal goal to change and carry out this in my life. I admit, some days, weeks, and months I don’t do so well with it. but change is often gradual, and I know that I will get there.

I hope you find this of value in your own life, be it for your family or your work!

 

Cheers,

DK

Why You Need A Morning Routine & How It Can Change Your Life

Have you ever wondered how you can increase the amount of work you can comfortably get done in a day? Though many people cringe at the idea of waking up earlier than they have to in order to get a head start on their day, it is characteristic of many successful leaders.

Steve Reinemund, the former President and CEO of Pepsi would go on a four-mile jog at five in the morning. Michelle Gass the President of Starbucks also enjoys a morning run because it “clears her mind,” as she told Forbes Magazine. The old adage “the early bird gets the worm” really does seem to hold true.

So why should church leaders especially focus on developing and maintaining a strong morning routine?

Focus – People without direction or guidance generally stray from the course. They find themselves wondering what they were doing or what they need to do. A good morning routine provides church leaders with direction at a time when they might not yet be awake and attentive. Knowing ahead of time what you’re going to do when you wake up can be a key factor in how productive the first few hours of your day become. Without the focus provided to you by a morning routine you might loose grip of our most valuable resource, time.

Momentum – Imagine a runner who is about to start a race. If he stumbles or is too slow off of the blocks, then he might have just lost all chances he had of winning the race. Likewise, how church leaders start their days is critical to giving them momentum and setting the courses they will follow for the rest of the day. Starting your day on the right foot can be the difference between a bad day and a good day, or the difference with an okay day and a great day. Church leaders need to focus on building momentum in the morning so they can accomplish the best work they can for the Kingdom the rest of the day.

Prioritize – The things that you care about the most should come first in your life, and especially come first during your day. Church leaders especially should take advantage of an early morning start to set their priorities in their head, heart, and soul. Whether its thirty minutes studying the Bible, or a morning run to the latest worship album, the things that church leaders focus on in the morning will likely be the things they put the most stress on in the rest of their day. Early in the morning is the perfect time to prioritize since there tends to be fewer distractions present to pull you away from your task at hand.

Less Work – Let’s face it, church leaders are human too, which means they have limits. A structured morning routine will allow you to focus on the task at hand instead of wondering what you should work on or do next. When you’re disciplined in your morning routine, you eliminate the temptation to procrastinate or become distracted.

Starting well with a morning routine can have a significant impact on church leaders and the quantity and quality of the work that they do throughout the day. Your morning routine doesn’t have to be about the work you have to do that day. A successful morning routine should serve the purpose of getting you excited to go to work for the Kingdom.

Failure is not an option, but it will happen


Let’s face it, we all fail at times. It’s part of life. While we don’t want failures to define us and we don’t want to live in a place of failure, the fact is that failure can be a good thing. It can motivate us. It can inspire us to think differently. It can challenge us to try harder.

May successful people started out as failures. Thomas Edison said “Results? Why, man, I have gotten lots of results! If I find 10,000 ways something won’t work, I haven’t failed. I am not discouraged, because every wrong attempt discarded is often a step forward…”

The key is how we perceive failure and how we view ourselves.

With that in mind, here is a great post for parents about teaching kids lessons in and through failure from All Pro Dad (allprodad.com)

Enjoy!

DK

Failure is inevitable. It’s impossible to go through life without losing or coming up short one way or another. But what’s most important is how you respond to that failure. Here are 5 things to teach your kids about failure.

Everyone Has Unique Talents

Maybe your daughter wants to be the next Carrie Underwood. Then you hear her sing. Your son wants to be Evan Longoria. He can’t hit the ball off a tee. There are just some things we aren’t cut out for; it’s best to learn that at an early age. The good news is that they are a champion at something. It may not be sports or school or music, but let them try it all. Guide them towards their gifts and encourage them along the way.

Not Everybody Gets a Trophy

Somewhere along the line, we became a society that preached instant gratification. Like a giant carnival, our slogan became “Everybody wins all the time.” We know it’s not true. It’s also a terrible example to set. Losing is every bit as important in human growth as winning. Rewarding your child for doing nothing will teach him just that. Nothing.

Be Respectable

What is one of the most flattering descriptions a person can hear? “He sure has a lot of class.” “She sure was a great sport about it.” Are you teaching your children how to fail with dignity? How to leave it on the field? How a person accepts failure is an easy indicator of the character within. The ability to laugh about it sure makes failures a lot easier to deal with. When you make mistakes in front of your kids, set that example. Don’t curse and scream at the sky. Just shake your head and laugh. It happens. If they have a good attitude, whether winning or losing, they are almost guaranteed future success. Respect is gained outwardly and inwardly.

Persevere

“I think and think for months. For years. Ninety-nine times the conclusion is false. The hundredth time I am right.” Who said that? Albert Einstein. Every time you fail, you must dust yourself off and get back on that horse. Determination wins many victories. We should not allow our children to give up easily. Maybe your son has brought home two straight failing test grades in math. He thinks there is no way he will ever get it. Help him pick himself back up. Try once more. Do whatever it takes to make it work. Perseverance will eventually lead to positive results and a lifelong lesson never to be forgotten.

Understand True Success

Looking into the future, what do you wish for your children? I’m guessing happiness tops that list.Honest and respectable, having a loving family of their own. You don’t want them to aspire to the fast sports car, lots of money and countless hot girlfriends. Yet, that is exactly what is marketed at him– eternal failure. Society teaches shallowness to be equal to success. As a parent, it is up to you to define what success truly is. It is a battle that you must win.

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